Extreme Wealth Working Just 5 Hours a Week

A business mind and a bleeding heart are often an incompatible mix…

The Bleeding Hearts at Sugarluxe

But I should back up.

Don’t we just EAT UP the idea of an overnight success story?

Like the 2 a.m. infomercials – Lose weight without any effort whatsoever, enjoy extreme wealth working just 5 hours a week, and get smoother, wrinkle-free skin with this amazing wonder cream.

Who doesn’t want the quick fix? Yet, true success in, well, pretty much everything…doesn’t happen overnight. For artists, if it happens at all, it’s usually after we’re dead.

So, for those who hope that fortune will fall in your lap – then by all means, click here.

Know better? Then keep reading.

  • By nature, I was born a bleeding heart. It’s a fact – and it’s a double-edge sword when it comes to business.
  • I hate to say NO to anyone – because I am wired to want to help others…and also because (see #1).

When I decided to launch Sugarluxe…I left everything behind.  Full-on risk, no side jobs, no income, no safety net.  I cashed out my tiny 401K and I was determined to build a brand name.  I didn’t freelance or take any pick up work that might have made it easier, but would ultimately, distract me from my end goal.

I don’t believe in Get Rich Quick Schemes. So, to be successful, I have to make sure that my business sensibilities prevail, or at least work hand in hand with my bleeding heart.

I understand people want something custom for their business, new website, boutique, blog, product packaging, myspace page, their new line of greeting cards, their new line of panties, their non-profit, their church group, their brochures, their banners, headers, t-shirts, and…oh my gosh – I am out of breath!

I’m not complaining or taking any of the recognition for granted. 

One day I’ll spill the gory details of the significant losses in my life, until then just know that I am someone who gets that in an instant, your whole life can change. (Did you think for a moment that my happy, colorful artwork meant that I wasn’t a tortured soul?)

Frida knows – Art is suffering.

Frida Kahlo

Sacrifice, living lean and forging ahead is what I’ve had to do.  Sure it’s been 3 super fast years since I started Sugarluxe…but I’ve been working a lifetime to get to this point.

Reminds me of one of my favorite stories…it’s about Picasso:

Picasso was sitting in a Paris café when an admirer approached and asked if he would do a quick sketch on a paper napkin. Picasso politely agreed, swiftly executed the work, and handed back the napkin — but not before asking for a rather significant amount of money.

The admirer was shocked: “How can you ask for so much? It only took you a minute to draw this!” “No”, Picasso replied, “It’s taken me my whole life”.

So, absolutely…I would love to help with your project, your new business venture or develop your brand of designer boxers!  My bleeding heart wants to do it all for free, but then my business mind reminds me…

And this is especially important for women to hear because we are usually the first to trivialize our talents:

Understand your unique value.  Maybe you’ve started your own company, you’ve climbed the corporate ladder or you’re a freelance designer, writer or consultant – when you work incredibly hard for what you’ve achieved, you not only deserve credit, but you deserve excellent compensation for what you have to offer. 

And those who complain of your confidence are surely the ones sitting back their entire lives, just waiting for the chance to get rich quick.

Related Posts with Thumbnails

SHARE THIS POST:
  • email
  • Facebook
  • MySpace
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
  • Google Bookmarks
  • Kirtsy
  • StumbleUpon
  • ThisNext
  • Wists
  • LinkedIn
  • Technorati
  • Twitter

Post to Twitter

Sugarluxe on Facebook

Comments

5 Responses to “Extreme Wealth Working Just 5 Hours a Week”
  1. jennifer justice says:

    keep up the good work! you deserve every dollar you get 10 fold! the picasso line is great… milk it! -j

  2. Caryn says:

    Amen!!! …from a fellow ‘bleeding heart’. When it comes to my art and creative talents I was forever finding myself unable to say no in the favor/ gift/ side job/ do-gooder arena. While I loved helping and seeing their appreciation, I was left underpaid – or not paid at all, exhausted ( from juggling SO many commitments), spread too thin and in the long run, was slowly compromising my future worth in the business world. I actually felt bad asking for the compensation I knew I was worth… WHAT?! ew.

    From a friend standpoint, “aww that’s so nice” but from a ‘I have goals and I am going to make a success of this’ standpoint… what the heck was I thinking?!?

    And through many artistic all-nighters and bottles of wine came clarity (well, in my world anyway :) HA!) and I made a change. I can COMPLETELY relate to your decision of going all risk full speed ahead. I’m living it right now as we are finally beginning to see our passion come to life. All risk, no safety net and the freebies/favors have come to an end (I still hate to say no but duty calls now!). I expected the (financial) uncertainty of it all to be scary but it has only motivated us all the more and has become incredibly exciting. Success is the ONLY option.

    So blah blah blah… what I’m trying to say is, once again, you are an amazing inspiration and I look forward to future blogs. Your candid advice and experiences are very helpful and appreciated by those of us just starting out.

    Much success girl!

    Cheers!
    Caryn

  3. Karen says:

    Does this mean you are not going to paint a huge mural on Claire’s wall for free and by tomorrow night?

    You have a gift…doesn’t mean everyone else should get one from you. (Except me. I fully intend to win one of the sweepstake prizes!)

Trackbacks

Check out what others are saying about this post...
  1. make money with online…

    Wonderful. I wish everyone posted such great content. Thanks. Sam….

  2. i do greeting cards says:

    This is such a wonderful and informative way to reach others. I will be more than glad to share this site….



Contribute to the Conversation

Tell us how you relate...
Plus, if you want a pic to show with your comment, you can get a gravatar!